Other forms of traumatic abuse can include exposure to the following during childhood, adulthood, or both:
The effects of traumatic abuse can be severe and long lasting. Unfortunately, it is not uncommon for your efforts to tell what happened and to seek help, to be met by invalidation and victim blaming. Such experiences can also be traumatizing.
The harm that comes from traumatic abuse can include:
How I can help
The road to recovery from trauma contains two central approaches:
1. The healing and empowering psychotherapy relationship. The healing comes from understanding your emotional experiences precisely how you experience them. I will pay careful attention to the fullness of your emotional communication including your words, voice tone, gesture, facial expression all which tells a story of how the traumas you’ve experienced live inside of you.
I will do my best to feel these painful feelings with you while maintaining an observing stance so that we can work on making sense of what you feel. My training has helped me to build the capacity to notice and process painful states of mind that other practitioners might tend to not notice or even avoid.
I will pay careful attention to how our own interactions serve as a map for understanding experiences you’ve never had the words to express
I will help you to pay attention to your own train of thought, to your body, and to the images your mind conjures in an effort to empower you to know and accept yourself and what has happened to you
I will help you become aware of personal qualities and abilities that have been misunderstood and/or undermined by the traumas you’ve experienced
2. Emotion regulation strategies, breaking self-destructive behavioral cycles, and effective life action strategies:
a. Mindfulness practice – learn to observe your inner world with acceptance, awareness, and appreciation. The goal is to reclaim your mind as a safe place to think, feel, and know about yourself.
b. Learn what triggers overwhelming emotional states and self-destructive behaviors. Often what seems like acts of self-destruction or self-defeat contain a self-protective purpose that I will help you to access.
c. Learn cognitive-behavioral strategies of calming and empowering yourself that are congruent with your personal style and preferences. A balanced approach to problem solving and personal growth – problem solving informed by an in-depth understanding of the personal issues involved increasing the likelihood of success.
d. Build an integrated and authentic self-image including a vision of your future self. Reconnect with your desires, talents/skills, and ambitions while generating specific strategies for creating a sense of purpose and meaning in your life.
e. Build supportive relationships and community connections and resources